Chunk down on either side
Chunk down (find details) that will invalidate their belief or argument.
Ask:
- What specifically?
- What are examples of this?
- What are parts of this?
Statement: Finding a new job is very hard.
Which part? Is it writing a resume? Is it finding the company that’s hiring? Or is it getting an interview?
Statement: His laziness at work makes me very angry.
How specifically is he being lazy that makes you choose to be angry?