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50 GOLDEN RULES FOR LIFE. (Copied from Positive Brains)

This is a full copy of Positive Brains post from here. 1. Never shake hands at anyone without standing up. 2. In a negotiation, never make the first offer. 3. If they trust you a secret, keep it. 4. If … Continue reading

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Sleight of Mouth Patterns: Day 16

Intent on cause/evidence Comment on the intent (of yourself or the other party) to discover or redirect the motivation of the belief or argument. Ask:

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Sleight of Mouth Patterns: Day 15

Counter-Example Find an example or evidence that runs counter (against) their belief or argument. Ask:

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Sleight of Mouth Patterns: Day 14

Chunk up (or exaggerate) on either side Chunk up (go ‘big picture’) to invalidate their argument. Ask:

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Sleight of Mouth Patterns: Day 13

Chunk down on either side Chunk down (find details) that will invalidate their belief or argument. Ask:

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Sleight of Mouth Patterns: Day 12

Redefine on effect/belief Redefine the concept in the second part of the sentence. Ask:

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Sleight of Mouth Patterns: Day 11

Redefine the concept in the first part of the sentence. Ask:

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Sleight of Mouth Patterns: Day 10

Metaphor/Analogy on effect/belief Simply tell a metaphor or a story that changes their belief. Ask:

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Sleight of Mouth Patterns: Day 9

Another outcome Find another outcome to shift to, rather than the current one. Ask:

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Sleight of Mouth Patterns: Day 8

Consequence on whole statement Comment on the consequence of their belief. Ask:

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