Hierarchy of values on Effect/Belief
Point out what’s more important than their argument or belief.
Ask:
- What are higher values?
- What’s more important?
- How can you apply the current value to their values?
Statement: Finding a new job is very hard.
Don’t you think there are so many things that are really hard? Compared to those, finding a job might be easy.
Statement: His laziness at work makes me very angry.
Don’t you think getting angry on things that you don’t have control of is silly?